“I reserve the right to love many different people at once, and to change my prince often.” Anaïs Nin
Let Samael guide you in your journey of Polyamorous exploration, and help overcome initial reservations or later situations.
As a sex worker for many years, and an educator in areas of sex, LGBTQ+, polyamory and kink, Samael is perfectly poised to help you - alone or with a partner - to unleash your desires, expand your knowledge and grow your love horizon.
Samael brings much more than this experience and point of view.
In "another life", he was a tech entrepreneur, business manager, innovator and business mentor for over 24 years.
Taking learnings from this part of his life, and his personal journey, he sees many ways he can help others on the way of opening their love horizons.
This is his passion, and he has made it his goal to support and give back to the community.
Polyamory is a form of non-monogamy that involves having multiple romantic, loving relationships with the consent of all parties involved. It differs from other forms of non-monogamy in that it emphasizes emotional intimacy and, often, long-term relationships. Here are some key aspects and practices associated with polyamory:
Open and Honest Communication: Essential for managing expectations, boundaries, and dealing with feelings like jealousy. Partners discuss their needs, desires, and concerns openly.
Consensual: All parties involved have agreed to the relationship structure and are aware of each other's relationships.
Autonomy: Individuals maintain their autonomy and are free to form relationships as they choose, within the agreed-upon boundaries.
Setting Boundaries: Partners negotiate what is acceptable within their relationships, which can include emotional and physical boundaries.
Relationship Agreements: These can range from casual to very structured, including agreements on safe sex practices, cohabitation, and parenting.
Managing Jealousy: Polyamory requires confronting and managing jealousy in constructive ways, often through reassurance, communication, and self-reflection.
Compersion: A term used in polyamory to describe feeling happy seeing your partner happy with another partner.
Hierarchical Polyamory: Involves primary, secondary, and sometimes tertiary relationships, with primary relationships typically receiving more time, energy, or priority.
Non-Hierarchical Polyamory: No set hierarchy among relationships; each relationship operates independently but with equal importance.
Solo Polyamory: Individuals who do not seek primary partnerships but engage in multiple relationships while maintaining their independence.
Polyfidelity: A closed polyamorous relationship where all members are considered equal partners and agree not to have romantic or sexual relationships outside the group.
Time Management: Balancing time among multiple partners can be challenging.
Social Stigma: Polyamorous individuals may face misunderstanding or stigma from family, friends, or society.
Legal and Social Recognition: Legal recognition of polyamorous relationships is limited, affecting issues like parenting rights, medical decisions, and financial arrangements.
Ethical polyamory emphasizes honesty, consent, and respect for all involved. It's about building relationships that are supportive, enriching, and respectful.
Living a polyamorous lifestyle successfully often involves continuous personal growth, emotional intelligence, and the flexibility to adapt to changing dynamics within relationships. It's also crucial for individuals to educate themselves continuously and seek support from communities or professionals familiar with non-monogamous relationship dynamics.
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